The main reasons are big distances and high import duties.
Distances and high transport expences cannot be overcome and many companies say that it is long and expensive to sell in Russia.
As for duties - the main reason is that Russia is not in World trade organization. Why they don't aloow Russia to be member if WTO it is another problem - every country has right with economic requirement ask from entering countries any other obligations - from political isuues up torequirement to have flight to the Mars first. As you understand certain countries have a lot questions to Russia. Result is Russia is almost the only in the world - not member of WTO.
If this problem would be solved Russian government wouldn't be able to use these import duties.
As for washing mashines, fridges etc. - they WERE MADE in times of USSR. How would be people able to wash? EVERY family had and now have a washing mashine. You have strange information.
Eveybody had MADE in USSR washing mashines, fridges, TVs, photo cameras etc... Many of those items STILL work!!!
As for nowadays, it is not every day deal, but it is impossible to imagine life without them now.
As for electric tea kettles - it is not a problem at all! They are VERY cheap! The problems can come later when these kettles will double your electricity bills. That is why some people deliberately don't buy them - only because they don't want to pay more for electricity when they can for flat price use gas 24 hours a day.
Why it was a big deal in USSR - because they produced less than it was demanded. That is why there was deficit of them.
Nowadays many companies make their electronics in Russia - LG, Zanussi, Candy, Bosch, Siemens etc... They are much cheaper than imported from abroad.
Of course modern washing mashines are "smarter", they require less water, needn't hot water, not so loud, but general functions are the same.
That is why there is no answer for question "how this has changed russia, russians, and their daily life".
What happened to soviet industries - many of them were closed in 1990s, not only because of quality of products but because of general economic crisis. When you have inflation some thousand % per year, everything stops, companies become bancrupts, the only way - is just to sell all the equipment as metal and finished. This is what happened in 1990s.
As for "mafia" this term is used only in Western press. there is no any "mafia", there is organized criminag groups as everywhere in the world. Don't join those who think about Russia with stereotypes.
About capitalism. In 1990s Russians had huge problems withfree markets (you cannot imagine, but try: tomorrow you wake up and all the money you have on your bank accoun became zero, all pruduction in the country stopped but you still go to work. Because you don't have choice - or you go and have hope that they will pay you something or don't go and then loose even hope. They don't pay you 1 month, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, etc...... but you come back home and have kids at home. They want to eat, they need to go to school but you cannot do anything because just there is no job at all...).
After those years of free economy without any laws many average people were agree to have less freedom but to be able to earn for life. On this wave government stated to "screw nuts". And now we have what we have.
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No, I'm not from Moscow. Very far from Moscow. Problem is not "hate of capitalism" but "hate wild capitalism" when there is no any laws which would stop "capitalists" on their way to criminals. There were no this line in Russia. But "capitalism with human face" is welcomed in Russia by everybody!
Nowadays washing machines can be broken too. Don't they show every day on TV consequences of hard water?